Marriage Life

hmm... haven been blogging here like half a mth .. had alot of pple asking me how is marriage life...

I can say like not much difference from the past? Lesser big quarrels and a little more small bickerings... Savings on hp bill and more convenience for mutual friends hahahaa

We see each other everyday .. we hear each other speaks.... we hear each other's tone of voice ... hence there are lesser misunderstandings ... which lead to lesser big quarrels which in our case... are usually mis-understandings...

more bickerings... on who to clean the house .. who to throw the rubbish.... oh~ the common things ... hahah like the both of us who are not required to do housework in our own house, housework is a big change ... but still by now the territorials are set....

clothes = his, since I am too too short to reach the hangers... hack I can't even reach to the bottom of the washing m/c

sweep/mop= mine, sometimes he do them

cook = me during weekends... its his on weekdays (o~maggee mee o~ maggi mee) since he reaches house like 1.5 hrs earlier than I do.

toilet washing = me of cos~!

rubbish = definitely his! (since I'm scared to death of seeing roaches if I open the rubbish chute)

-.-"

savings on hp bills and since we both are no lifers, most of our hp usage spent on each other .. after changing workplace, I'm now on MSN~! even more savings ...

and mutual friends of ours who think that notifying 1 is notifying both ... saves on hp bills or the hassle of typing MSN msg twice... *sweatz*

but of cos ... I know the "difference" is not only in these kind of mundane stuffs (all u commoners~!) the difference now lies in the responsibility that falls on both of us and the commitments towards our family for our every decision. For e.g in the past, buying clothes, playing games 24/7 seems to be alright-when we are still singles

however, after we get married, buying 1 more top = lesser money for bills/savings for kids
playing another hr of game = 1 hr lesser time for hugs=1hr more of electricity bills...

It is no longer the "I" but the "we" that we need to emphasize on ...

Of cos, going deeper still, we have got 1 more person whom we can trust our life and soul on ... one more person nearer to us whom we can rely on when in need, to share our love, happiness, troubles, doubts and hopes... and this is the person (besides parents/siblings) who will be by the side for the years to come ...