Of my headaches

That day we spent a lazy Sat afternoon at home before we had to go out for dinner with our family...

Having slept at 4am the previous day and having choir practice at 930am that morning, I was feeling quite tired. At one point I was waiting for the 僵尸道长 to load before I can watch, I turned to look at my husband playing his Maple Story....

He looked up and said "Having headache again right?" ...

I was like ". . . and how do you know?"

and he said "Of course, who do you think I am to you?"

Couldn't suppress my smile as I felt really touched that he can know just how I am feeling without me even batting my eyelid or telling him outright....

幸福 。 。 。

Of Ironing and Man

Dar have to wear shirts to work everyday. So that day, he said he wants to try ironing his own shirts. So I was like "Ok~ Thats even better for me"

After ironing 2 shirts, he came over, sweating all over and said ... "Ling can you help me iron? I can't stand it anymore."

And I was like

". . ."

Braun should start R&D on irons that man would love to use. Maybe ironing clothes with cool mist or something....

27th Feb 2008 It's a special day~

Today marks our 1st yr Anniversary since ROM and the 7th yr since we held each other's hand.

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*blush* ~~~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There wasn't any romantic dinner night out or lavish presents etc etc....

He knows I don't buy that.

I do love the dinner he made for me despite it being (a lot) less than perfect.

psst~~ and he didn't complain he had to cook for me! That's the best present ever!

Of toilets and him

Gosh! That day Dar wanted to help me clean one of the toilets! And I was like "huh?? YOU want to help me clean?" Of course I jumped at the offer~

Now, when will the next offer be?

Tee Hee Hee

Marriage Life

hmm... haven been blogging here like half a mth .. had alot of pple asking me how is marriage life...

I can say like not much difference from the past? Lesser big quarrels and a little more small bickerings... Savings on hp bill and more convenience for mutual friends hahahaa

We see each other everyday .. we hear each other speaks.... we hear each other's tone of voice ... hence there are lesser misunderstandings ... which lead to lesser big quarrels which in our case... are usually mis-understandings...

more bickerings... on who to clean the house .. who to throw the rubbish.... oh~ the common things ... hahah like the both of us who are not required to do housework in our own house, housework is a big change ... but still by now the territorials are set....

clothes = his, since I am too too short to reach the hangers... hack I can't even reach to the bottom of the washing m/c

sweep/mop= mine, sometimes he do them

cook = me during weekends... its his on weekdays (o~maggee mee o~ maggi mee) since he reaches house like 1.5 hrs earlier than I do.

toilet washing = me of cos~!

rubbish = definitely his! (since I'm scared to death of seeing roaches if I open the rubbish chute)

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savings on hp bills and since we both are no lifers, most of our hp usage spent on each other .. after changing workplace, I'm now on MSN~! even more savings ...

and mutual friends of ours who think that notifying 1 is notifying both ... saves on hp bills or the hassle of typing MSN msg twice... *sweatz*

but of cos ... I know the "difference" is not only in these kind of mundane stuffs (all u commoners~!) the difference now lies in the responsibility that falls on both of us and the commitments towards our family for our every decision. For e.g in the past, buying clothes, playing games 24/7 seems to be alright-when we are still singles

however, after we get married, buying 1 more top = lesser money for bills/savings for kids
playing another hr of game = 1 hr lesser time for hugs=1hr more of electricity bills...

It is no longer the "I" but the "we" that we need to emphasize on ...

Of cos, going deeper still, we have got 1 more person whom we can trust our life and soul on ... one more person nearer to us whom we can rely on when in need, to share our love, happiness, troubles, doubts and hopes... and this is the person (besides parents/siblings) who will be by the side for the years to come ...